bags

Honestly, I struggle. I’m constantly telling myself that I’m annoying everyone around me and every person in the room hates me. I feel like this is a feeling that causes distress for many people. As I was having one of these moments in our friend group chat, one of my friends said something to me that I will never forget. She said, “as cliche as it is, ull never be too much for ppl who can’t get enough of u.” I will not ever be deleting the screenshot of our conversation. Cliché or not, I needed to hear that. Not only because I constantly seek validation, but also because I’m way too hard on myself. I look back at what she said often to remind myself that 1.) I have made AMAZING friends and 2.) I am the only person overthinking. The only person who is stopping me from living in the moment with people is myself. Carrying the weight of self-sabotage is heavy. Find people who can’t get enough of you. As a matter of fact, I hope you learn how to be good enough for yourself. Don’t let anyone stand in your way and shut you down… and especially don’t let that person be you.

thanks, baggy;)